Kisscafe

Ok so let's say you and I agree to meet. At Waffle House(yeah I know be more original but hey I am trying to be realistic). We have coffee...and we decide well he or she is a nice person but just not the one for me...how do you handle that situation?   If you decide to never speak to me again(remember you think I am a cool person just not someone you want to date) then stop reading now. If you are strong enough to tell me something along the lines of "hey your really nice/sweet/kind..but I just don't think I would like to date you" Ok it's cool for you to continue reading here.

yes I know that sounds kinda bitchy but it really is not meant to be. Trust me if I did not like you in "that" way I would tell you. I would not tell you I will call you later...and never email, call, IM or anything like that. I am Woman enough to just tell you it aint happenin captn.

If you are kind/sweet/fun/funny to be with/ etc...keep reading please.

I like people...usually. I love having fun, I love to laugh.

I AM NOT going to have sex with you immediatly. Maybe one day ..but dont even think about it at first. IF I decide to have sex with someone...it will be because I have decided that I have strong emotional ties to this guy. Not just because I am turned on. If I had sex with every man that could get my attention...I would have LOTS of sex...but I am just the type of woman that's very picky about whom I have sex with.

Sorry folks..thats just the way the ball bounces with me.  IF that is ok...hey I have email and IM and if I like you after we have chatted awhile...I even have a phone.

If you don't live in driving distance of me...I really am not looking to have a boyfriend that lives far away. If you just want to be a friend..well thats different I would not mind chatting then...just know this..I dont do cyber sex either.

Damn Im old fashioned..and kinda mean..but if you like that kinda stuff..mail me...ok?